............... For you to give up.....
Yes I have faced this situation sometimes..... Where in u lose patience (and restraint maybe) and u say you give up...... on something, somebody.... take ur pick..... What ticks u off? How LONG do u hold on? That depends on the importance u attach to the object or person.... that seems like the answer i woulda received from griz.... hmm ok.... then when do u eventually give up ? after trying hard enough..... is what he would say to this too.......
My question here is : how important is it, to let the other person know, in the case of a person related problem, that u have a problem ?? You refrain from doing it..... it is vanity or stubbornness or stupidity i dont know.... but u dont wana tell the other person that u have a problem.... somehow, what u are expecting is a flowery apology from the "offender" (is he/she really an offender?!?!? we'll come to that!! ... ) saying that it was his/her mistake, he/she is extremely sorry and he/she wont do it again.... blah blah ......
But maybe, MAYBE things aren't really as drastic as u think they are..... If u were an outsider, looking at ur situation with ur irritator (wow oxford dictionary gets marvelous new entries !!) ..., u would say "hey hey hey !! look at this here.... that shud mean that he/she did/said taht with a purpose and hence u mistook it"....... (Dont even get me started abt coincidence being the root cause of most misunderstandings!!!)
So I intend this to be a practical guide to "what to do when u are pissed off??" ..... And i want to emphasize on practical hence the bold and italics.... cos lets face it, almost everybody gets pissed off
1) Get outside ur shell......... I mean the bubble of anger u are in....... Listen to some plinky plunky music maybe....... But make that effort to get outside the shell....
2) Just try and give the other person (offender) some credit...... By doing this when u r calm, ur mind can much more justly make the decision whether he/she deserves some credit or not.......
3) Look for any misunderstanding possiblity..... cos maybe u dint do something or dint understand something or whatever......
4) Clarify it with the other person........
Thoo hogolo.......sakkath kashta idella madakke........ practical guide gaya bhaaad mein ! Just go back to ur anger mood and rock on !!! :D
P.S : Sakkkkkkkkkkkkkkath washte naanu alla ?!?!? :P
4 comments:
It must have taken a lot of effort to put in those he/shes instead of just he or she!
Not too much....
always look at the bright side of ur life,
always look at the light side of ur life..
that, n, take things not with a pinch, but a bag of salt :)
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